We are a part of an electromagnetic universe dedicated to our individual and collective soul growth, and it works on our behalf to help us evolve. The universe clearly understands that our human evolution is important for the development of our emotions, and that love and compassion is some of the most important aspects of our soul’s evolution. In other words, love is one of the key indicators of our evolution; there’s no greater teacher to help us expand ourselves. But we need to be open to receiving that wisdom.

What is love 

“composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” Aristotle 
It is said where there is love there is life. Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend. Our human compassion binds us the one to the other — True love is selfless and egoless, But what comes from this poetic union of two perfect souls.

A spiritual bliss? Unconditional passion? A fulfilled soul? love and compassion towards your partner and humanity ultimately can take you towards higher levels of self-realization and enlightenment, only if we liberate and seek the true meaning of love. Talking about love is a great feeling but there is definitely something in romantic love we all need to control: ego.
The first half of life is devoted to forming a healthy ego, the second half is going inward and letting go of it.”
Carl Jung

Ego based Love

When there is ego in love is not truly selfless because we inherently attach some condition of control or possession to it. When you love with ego it is based on conditions and expectations.

When love is authentic, it does not seek to control or possess. Authentic love is based on a selfless connection and fondness for the other person. We truly value and wish them happiness, even if that happiness does not include us.

During my sessions I have seen many times people are struggling with relationships, unable to understand whether there is love anymore in their relationships, A question that is asked much time does he or she loves me, I believe we love each other in our own given capacity, your idea of love can be more profound or deeper than my idea or way of loving someone, I always suggest try not to read your partner’s mind.

One of the most asked questions is why there are repetitive Cycles why do I attract similar people and relationships, In my level of understanding I have tried to explain it below 



Repetitive Cycles 

For a lot of us, love is a painful cycle of karmic patterns: we fall in love, love falls apart and we are left heartbroken until the cycle begins again. We at times attract similar people and similar patterns in the relationship, and we rarely stop to ask ourselves why: why are we experiencing these cycles? Why do we continue to attract a certain type of lover and repeat the same pattern? What’s it all for?

Sometimes we create energy through our thoughts and actions unintentionally, there is sometimes conditioning in our subconscious mind, some past incident, a relationship, a person’s behaviour can be a trigger to attract similar energies and people in your life. 

Freud suggested the metaphor that the mind is like a glacier. So much of what motivates us and concerns us—hold us back and pushes us forward—lies beneath the surface of consciousness. We do our best to work with what we know: the tip of the glacier, the conscious mind. But powerful forces lie beneath the surface: the unconscious mind. The unconscious mind is like a grave filled with living beings whats get buried there isn’t dead. 


Another spiritual school of thought also refers towards karmic patterns too, karma can transfer in generations just like we look alike our forefathers because we have their genes, the same way we genetically inherit their karma.

How to release Repetitive Patterns in your relationship:

When we shine a light on the unconscious, by reflecting in solitude, in meditation, counselling and prayers, we can better see what’s going on in there. Facing our unconscious fears and traumas rather than avoiding them brings a whole new perspective. Over time, these practises actually tends to make you more centred and give you more mental strenght and help you break the cycle.

Through meditating on the inner Light we can explore the inner spiritual regions of Light and love. By developing loving qualities and being of service to others we become fit to enter God’s/universe’s realm.  If we start afresh and begin to live today onwards in love, the kingdom will open for us. What we have done in the past we must leave behind and release it and start anew. The universe’s gates are open to all. Meditation is open to all, Prayers and Light is for all. To proceed higher, start from today, and inculcate love for all. In this way, we can glimpse the regions of Light and soar to the highest region to merge in the Creator.


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  1. “we love each other in our own given capacity, your idea of love can be more profound or deeper than my idea or way of loving someone.”
    This is so beautifully written Rabia. You just said it. Reading about repetitive cycles was an eyeopener.

  2. I am learning so many new things about the subconscious mind Through your blogs please keep writing and keep educating us ❤️

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